There’s one unfortunate dating scenario that all too many people experience; after a year or even more, they find themselves having wasted their time on someone who really never fulfilled the promises they said they would. How can you tell if you’ll be caught up in this trap? How do you know if you’re just wasting your time? Here are three warning signs to watch out for.
1. Life Goals
Ask them about their life goals. Have they accomplished any, or are they on their way to? You can tell a lot from someone who has a lot of talk and not a lot of walk. Where is the fruit of their labors? I don’t just mean financially, but let’s be real, if they can’t afford even a single date, you may want to seriously think about whether they’re in a place to even date to begin with. Dating ultimately involves marriage, and this is where it gets scary.
Are they in a place for marriage within two, three or five years? Do you find yourself waiting on them, or even changing your life around them? That is a major sign that you may find yourself waiting years for a more serious commitment. Be very cautious to not change your dreams for someone to catch up to theirs, especially if they are only talking about things all the time and not actually making any advancement to pursue them or make it happen.
“All hard work brings a profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty.” —Proverbs 14:23…
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Have a blessed Tuesday, folks,